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中国学生网收集了一篇《无声告白》读后感 ,并以此书献给正在与中国教育挣扎的家长与孩子们,下面是这篇文章,不知道你对这本书有何读后感一想到父母期待的眼神,我们只有忍气吞声 人类都是健忘的,40岁没法理解30岁,30岁也看不懂20岁,20岁则对10几岁不屑一顾。 我知道14-16岁的少年们其实都动过自杀的念头,可能是一瞬,可能是一两次,但相信我,他们都有。记得上初中的时候看过一篇文章题目就叫《14岁的母亲也想过自杀》,那个时候的年轻的小姑娘小伙子,都单纯脆弱无比,父母的不信任,老师的讥讽,失恋,喜欢的人不喜欢自己都会让人无比自卑和恐慌,自杀,重启,可能是知识范围内唯一能想到的解决方法。 因为年轻人的悲伤,总是比天还要大。 孩子在最初的时候没有梦想,蒋方舟就说过一句话,“孩子在年幼时候取得的一切成绩,都是一种向大人们献媚。” 无比正确。一句夸奖,一次和谐的晚餐,那都是孩子努力学习的目标。至于想当科学家,画家,也不过是从小听大人说多了,就记住了,鬼知道科学家是什么东西。 人天生都是要被认同的。被家人父母社会,或者自己。即使一时短暂的叛逆也不过是想要某一瞬间能吸引到别人的关注,说白了还是因为一种 广义上的虚荣心。 这种被认同的心理会随着年龄的增长越来越清晰,越来与具体。比如,我想成为一个小范围的网红;我要创业,赚钱;我要成名;我要做一个酷的人,让别人都羡慕我,这是认同,是虚荣心的一种结果。 前两日和好友聊天,如何选择行业这个问题无意中被提了上来。 现在金融业大热,人人都想在资本市场里摸滚打爬一圈,并同时能功成身退,攒足了钱回家养老,然后过自己想做的生活。无论是做fashion Icon也好,做电影艺术家也好,终归是要有钱。 但是遗憾的是,资本市场的玩法就像击鼓传花,总要有人输才能有人赢,没有过硬的背景,过人的胆识,入了这行之后,最好的结果也只能是庸碌一生。但是金融业诶,是一个说出去人人都会眼睛放光的行业,所以还是有很多平庸人士,在为了普世价值的认同感,挤进这个行业。但是你要是说,有多少人真的觉得适合这潭浑水,如果做个调查,那数字一定是捉襟见肘了。 真正能摆脱他人眼光的人都是勇士,能做到的人其实少之又少。 我有一个朋友富二代出身,家境殷实,上大学那会我们还在吃着食堂,摸着鼻涕,出门玩耍坐着漏风的公交车时,他已经开着他们家奔驰上下学了。他没什么后顾之忧,每天做的事情就是取悦自己。他唱歌,录歌,发专辑,跳舞,跳到可以参加比赛,爱上了电影,立志要攒到钱拍一部鸿篇巨制,每日躲在宿舍也是看尽所有7星以上电影,只为了可以培养自己能成为导演的一种感觉。后来家庭变故,吃穿用度一时间都成为难题,但是他找工作依然有着一种情怀,施展能力的做,表面工作毫无建树的不做,也是这么任性的一个人年近30,每日还在过着那些取悦自己的生活。而我们这些周围的朋友,都好生羡慕。 对于他们这种人,那种渴望被世界认可的成功,不过是在成为自己之后的结果,并不是目标。我很羡慕成功的人,我更羡慕知道自己要什么,每日都为自己而活的人。 我们终其一生,都在寻找某一个瞬间,可以摆脱他人的期待,普世价值的期待,寻找真正的自己。 想要成功没有错,想要平凡是对于成功这条路上的附加要求,也没有错。没有人喜欢为了出名,被人骂着长大。想要平凡,从平凡中有那么点儿不平凡是所有人对于 “社会生存”这个命题里最理想的期盼。 愿你们从这本书反思到自己,反思到自己的教育,自己的成长,那这本翻译不那么灵光的书也算是找到意义了。 如果做不到,至少在心理建设的时候告诉自己。 虽然开头就写了莉迪亚的死亡,紧接着全文都写了关于她的家庭的不幸而给她造成的巨大压力,看起来是因为不堪重压导致了她的悲惨结尾(自杀)。但是从文中十一章末尾,揭示真相的段落看出,莉迪亚去那里的真正目的是想从头开始,她有很多承诺,对自己,对父母,对哥哥,她想战胜此时对水的恐惧,来给予自己重新开始的勇气,只是,她毕竟不会游泳,她以为只要踢水,可是最终意外发生了。所以我觉得从这个方面,题目《everything I never told you 》,也是想从莉迪亚的角度,向她的家庭表达,我被死神拽走了,来不及向你们说我此刻的想法,我是想改变的,想找到真正的自己,爸爸妈妈希望你们理解我,哥哥我们和好吧。可是这些终究没有说出口。 其实这里莉迪亚不是非得死的,她一样可以回到家去,像家人呐喊出她的心声,可是那样的话,父母未必可以理解她,同意她,此后就是无休止的争吵。所以作者为了让父母或者读者更加深刻地意识到做自己有多么重要,逼迫他人有多么可怕,才给她安排了那样的结局。 就跟中国古代的文臣一样,怎么跟皇帝说他都听不进去,只能选择以死相谏,来达到让他认识问题严重性的目的。 一部电影《死亡诗社》,里边有一个情节,也是有一个男孩想当演员,可是他的父母不同意,最后选择了自杀。而《无声告白里》,莉迪亚是意外死亡。也许在人的观念里,只有死亡才能给人震撼。 个人理解,希望互相讨论,谢谢 我们终此一生,都无法摆脱他人的期待。 莉迪亚自杀前反复问自己:为什么错得如此彻底,错误是从哪里开始的? 按照她的想法,错误源自母亲玛丽琳离家出走带来的恐惧,源自父亲詹姆斯笨拙的暗示,源自父母完全不同的期望,源自她的恐惧。 但玛丽琳为何离家出走,詹姆斯为何总是暗示她交朋友,根源在哪? 根源在玛丽琳的母亲希望她成为一个把人生奉献给家庭的主妇,在詹姆斯的父母是非法的中国移民,在他们对母亲期望的反抗以及对与众不同的自卑和恐惧? 那玛丽琳的母亲为何如此期望,詹姆斯的父母又为何移民? 继续追问,永远没有尽头。 那根源在哪? 或许就在“期望”中。 人在过去的绝大多数时间以及可预见的未来,都生活在家里。过去家很大,人依附于家人生活,称作家族;如今家很小,个体解放,父母媳妇子女即是家,称作家庭。 无论是家族还是家庭,我们活在其中,受其影响。这种组织带来稳定和安全感的同时也带来了平庸和束缚——总会受成员的影响,活在他们的期望中。 玛丽琳的母亲是家政教师,她希望的生活如《贝蒂·克罗烹饪书》中所描述一样:“饼干罐里一定要有饼干!难道除此之外,还有更能表现家庭友好氛围的东西吗?”,“你将发现,你的色拉技巧,决定着全家的生活质量”,“贝蒂的腌菜!爱丽丝姑姑的桃子蜜饯!玛丽的薄荷酱!除了架子上盛着这些东西的闪亮的罐子和玻璃瓶,还有什么能给你更深的满足感?” 她期望玛丽琳成为温暖的主妇,而玛丽琳却讨厌这些女人“该做”的事,讨厌这本烹饪书,讨厌它时刻提醒母亲的期望以及自己并没有活成想要的那种人的失望。她想做医生,因为医生是她能想到的能与母亲生活方式拉开距离的职业,而这些距离决定了她必将与众不同,因为母亲的生活方式和精神状态是传统的代表。 玛丽琳将家政课换成手工课,上化学课时十五个男生,她一个女生,但她不害怕不尴尬,标新立异冲破传统的自豪感比来自男性的轻视以及环境带来的烦恼强大许多倍。 但她失败了,像许多追求梦想的人一样。和詹姆斯结婚,因为詹姆斯与众不同,所以她理所当然的认为詹姆斯能理解她,似乎找到了知己与红颜。现实的荒诞程度总会超出想象,詹姆斯爱上玛丽琳,只因为她普通自然。与他不同,移民、黄皮肤、黑眼睛、个子矮小,走到哪里都是“焦点”。他想中和身上的与众不同。 她因为婚姻放弃学医的梦想,又因为梦想离开家庭,因为怀孕不得不再次放弃。离家的九个星期,充满希望又以绝望结尾。为了家庭,她不得不做出牺牲,因为人不能只为自己活着,有些本性刻在基因里,定义人之所以为人。 这九个星期,第一次改变了莉迪亚——只要能让父母开心,她可以做任何事情,实现任何期望。 玛丽琳将学医的梦想寄托在莉迪亚身上,因为莉迪亚告诉她,她扔掉了烹饪书,对玛丽琳来说,这句话的分量之重如同她扔掉了女人天生要以家庭为核心的观念,母亲的期望以及束缚。 这种期望来得比玛丽琳母亲的更加凶猛,因为莉迪亚不是玛丽琳,她从不反抗,只是欣然接受,尽力完成。 因为她感受过失去母亲时家庭的变化——糟糕的早饭,颓废的父亲,发呆的哥哥,凝固的空气。 为了完成母亲的期望,她旁听大学生物课,以便跳级选修高二物理课,为了参加展会放弃同学聚会。她没有朋友,包括随意打招呼的普都没有,唯一懂她的只有哥哥内斯。 当一件事情不是发自内心时,无论目的多伟大,都可能做不好。做不喜欢的事情是痛苦的,而她一直生活在痛苦中。 物理课听不懂,生物课靠记忆,像个演员,表演出父母期望的样子——与众不同的科学家,朋友很多的普通人。 父亲詹姆斯没有朋友,因为头发、肤色、眼睛、身材与众不同,如同异类。所以朋友成了执念,如同医生成了玛丽琳的执念一样,得不到的才会刺痛和铭记。 当我看到莉迪亚为了让父亲开心,假装给朋友打电话,装作很聊得来时,心里顿时一阵绞痛,莉迪亚你太善良可怜了。 家里三个孩子,偏偏由你承担父母的期望,而这些期望是他们成年人想实现却无法实现的。 内斯的离开、父亲的项链和情人第二次改变了她,当她挤出灿烂的笑容时,我听到了精神崩碎的声音,比玻璃瓶掉在大理石地板上还要清脆。笑容背后是巨大的黑洞,将一切希望和梦想完全吞没,光明照不进去也释放不出来,在此之前她没笑过,任何时候都没有。 莉迪亚的第二次改变比第一次更猛烈更极端,她给母亲编造一些有关成绩和“额外学分计划”的故事,给父亲讲一些完全不存在的朋友的八卦,一切发生得自然而平和,如同一潭死水。 杀死她的是她自己,正如菲斯克警官说的那样,“根据现场的情况,自杀最有可能”。当然是自杀,莉迪亚在学校里没有朋友和敌人,她按时回家让母亲开心,性格孤僻不与人结仇,除了自杀还能是什么? 可自杀更可怕。活着的人大概无法明白选择亲手结束生命的人的想法,也不知道他们看透了生命还是看透了社会,不知道人间给他们带来了多大的痛苦,才让他们有勇气选择自杀。 与杰克最后的对话是压死骆驼的那根稻草。“至少我不用别人来告诉我,我想要什么。至少我知道我是谁,你呢,李小姐,你想要什么?” 莉迪亚如何能回答这个问题,难道告诉杰克,她想要成为科学家完成母亲的梦想,成为受人喜欢的交际花完成父亲的梦想?她无法开口,因为这是她逃避的,恐惧的,厌恶的。 此刻,她觉醒了。虽然她没有勇气对父母说不,但她知道不能再和以前一样了。她聪明孝顺懂事,但心智远未成熟,她怕母亲再次离开怕父亲再次崩溃,所以她选择用自杀告诉父母没有说出口的话。 四周漆黑一片,湖水泛起的波浪让周围显得更宁静,水藻没有产生多少阻力,她慢慢沉入水底,直到她以这种方式完成期望实现诺言。 天空从黑色变成蓝色,莉迪亚的房间里还是原来的样子,书桌上杂乱地堆着些东西,日记本里没有一行字。 《无声告白》讲述了跨族裔家庭的故事,开篇一句「莉迪亚死了,可他们还不知道」,一语道出了家庭成员之间的隔阂,情节从对死者的怀念和对家庭裂痕的反思中展开,也暴露出了东方人根深蒂固的内敛情感,即便他们从小浸淫在西方的文化中,也无法逃开黄皮肤和东方人的姓氏,深沉谦逊的民族性格也始终坚定不移。 她是八零后美籍华裔作家,处女作《无声告白》在世界文坛一鸣惊人,击败了斯蒂芬·金、村上春树等作家,荣登当年美国亚马逊年度最佳图书第一名。 回顾过往西方文坛的华裔女性作家,从汤亭亭、谭恩美,再到邝丽莎、任碧莲,她们的作品无一例外都在探讨不同时代中西方跨文化背景下女性在种族、性别、家庭、社会上的身份认同。2014 年,《无声告白》的出版引起了文坛的轰动,这部耗时 6 年、四易其稿写成的作品一经推出便横扫欧美所有图书榜单,获得了各大主流媒体的力荐:「《无声告白》探索了身份危机、人生成就、种族、性别、家庭以及个人道路。并且,这本小说没有任何一处落笔是粗疏的……深情力透纸背,刺痛你心,用词精准而克制,文风温婉而细腻……」 身为香港移民的第二代的伍绮诗生长在美国,在成为作家之前,她就是那种「别人家的孩子」,实实在在的学霸,毕业于哈佛大学,继而在密歇根大学深造,获得了创意写作专业的硕士学位。伍绮诗强烈的求知欲和创造力,源于家庭氛围的熏陶,身为知识分子的父母上个世纪 60 年代从香港移民到美国,这一特殊的身份和家庭让她有更多机会接近与她背景相似的华裔,也从此点燃了她创作的激情。在她出版第一部小说之前,一些作品已在杂志《三季刊》以及网站 The Millions 等欧美主流文学媒体上崭露头角,除了文本上的尝试,她还曾在密歇根大学教授文学,在评论界也有所斩获。 迄今为止,伍绮诗已经完成了她的两部长篇小说,而且都被搬上了大银幕,或者拍成了电视剧,由她所著的《小小小小的火》改编的同名剧从筹拍以来就备受关注。伍绮诗在日常生活中记录下了她自己以及周围家人、朋友所遭遇的种族歧视,以原生家庭为切入点,书写出新一代的移民故事。 原生家庭成员间的代际冲突 「女人要想写小说,必须有钱,再加一间自己的房间。」伍尔夫说的全职女作家的标配,伍绮诗在三十而立时就实现了,如今和丈夫、儿子一起生活在马萨诸塞州剑桥。从职场回归全职写作,没有了生计的顾虑,写作仿佛一个无边自由的游乐场:「有一段时间,我必须嚼着瑞典小鱼软糖、喝着樱桃可乐才能写出东西来。有时习惯于喝一杯很酽的伯爵茶,除此之外也没有什么秘诀。无非是坐下来,重新读读我前一天写好的东西,然后让故事继续下去。」除了日常的小说创作,伍绮诗习惯于从经典作品中寻找灵感,每一次重读,会发现意想不到的惊喜,《杀死一只知更鸟》《麦田里的守望者》《了不起的盖茨比》《太阳照常升起》《基督山伯爵》等都是她手边书。 1. 除了日常的小说创作,伍绮诗习惯于从经典作品中寻找灵感,《杀死一只知更鸟》《麦田里的守望者》等都是她的手边书。2. 伍绮诗所著的《小小小小的火》改编成同名剧,伍绮诗与剧中演员。3. 《小小小小的火》《无声告白》英文原版。 如伍绮诗所说的,移民故事一代代在延伸,大多数文本聚焦于搭建时代背景更替变迁下的主人公命运,而她决定浓缩创作的视角,回归到原生家庭故事。使用 App 查看完整内容 目前,该付费内容的完整版仅支持在 App 中查看🔗App 内查看 “莉迪亚死了,可他们还不知道。” 身为最受父母喜爱的女儿莉迪亚竟然选择自杀,这让哥哥内斯和妹妹汉娜很是内疚和不解。究竟有什么理由可以让一个16岁的小姑娘选择牺牲生命?她到底经历了什么? 带着种种疑惑,我翻开了伍绮诗耗费6年时间写就的第一篇长篇小说——《无声告白》。 伍绮诗的父母均是科学家,出生在美国,却是香港移民第二代。在美国如此严重的种族歧视下,可想而知她想要出头有多么不容易。可是,伍绮诗却以优异的成绩于哈佛大学毕业,并考取了密歇根大学的研究生院。 而她的处女小说《无声告白》一经出版,便大受好评,成为2014年度极具实力且众望所归的黑马,一举夺得亚马逊年度图书桂冠。 这是一个关于爱与失去的故事。它以莉迪亚的离奇失踪作为开篇,向我们缓缓讲述莉迪亚的种种遭遇,让我们感同身受。读罢,仿佛觉得也许只有死亡才能让这个可怜的小女孩得到解脱。那莉迪亚究竟经历了什么呢?下面我们不妨一起走进《无声告白》,剖析莉迪亚死亡的秘密。 死亡,是16岁的莉迪亚想要得到解脱的唯一的方法。 那究竟是什么原因让这个花季少女选择走上死亡这条路呢?主要有三个原因: 1、父母的期望 莉迪亚是玛丽琳和詹姆斯的第二个女儿,也是他们最喜欢的一个孩子,承载着父母最深的期盼。 母亲玛丽琳曾经是一个学霸,一心想要摆脱母亲的控制,想要当一名医生,可是后来遇见了当时是实习教师的詹姆斯,两人很快坠入爱河,有了爱情的结晶。 而玛丽琳为了孩子和家庭放弃了自己的梦想,整日围绕着家庭和孩子打转。她为了不让自己的女儿像她一样,整天被限制在丈夫和家庭之中,倾尽全力想要帮助莉迪亚摆脱这种束缚,想让莉迪亚实现自己的目标,却逐渐偏离了原来的轨道。“莉迪亚成为全家人的宇宙中心,尽管她不愿意成为这个中心——每天都担负着团结全家的重任,被迫承载父母的梦想,压抑着心底不断涌起的苦涩泡沫。”最终,莉迪亚受不住这些负荷,走上了不归路。 2、压抑的家庭关系 莉迪亚的父母看似恩爱,关系却十分脆弱。母亲玛丽琳是一位白种女孩,而父亲却是一个中国移民,深受种族歧视,内心十分敏感。 父亲一直担心母亲会离开,所以对待这段感情一直是小心翼翼。但两人之间缺乏沟通,不了解对方真正的想法。 两人将自己没有实现的梦想寄托在女儿莉迪亚身上,将更多的注意力和关爱集中在莉迪亚身上,从而忽视了内斯和汉娜。 本来哥哥内斯还能和她聊天,在她失落的时候还能安慰她,可是后来哥哥考上了哈佛,忙于学业,再加上父母长期的忽视,导致兄妹两人之间产生了隔阂。 而汉娜更是家中的小透明,尽管汉娜也想得到父母的关心,可是,一旦家中氛围有异,她便自己蹲在桌子底下,降低自己的存在感。 在这样压抑的家庭中,莉迪亚的心事无人诉说,只能自己默默承受着这个年龄本不该承受的一切,无可奈何的她最终选择了死亡来解脱。 3、种族歧视 在美国这个看似开放的国度,种族歧视一直是根深蒂固的存在。 莉迪亚的母亲是一位美国白人,而父亲是一名中国移民。在学校里,莉迪亚曾经很想融入那个圈子,可是后来在她们的排挤中,莉迪亚意识到,自己和他们是不一样的,无论自己做多少努力,都走不进他们那个圈子。 所以,后来莉迪亚开始一个人生活、学习,她没有朋友,更没有知己。在老师和同学们的眼中,莉迪亚是一个安静孤僻的存在。 可以说正是因为没有朋友可以诉说心事,以及长期的压抑下,莉迪亚才会觉得很孤独,遇到自己无法承受的事情的时候,才会走上极端。 当我们无法改变大环境时,我们只有改变自身,才能真正成长。 因为我们无法选择出生在什么样的家庭,也无法选择自己的父母,唯有强大自己,从这三个方面做起,才能摆脱原生家庭带来的伤害。 1、做真正的自己 在《你当像鸟飞往你的山》一书中,讲到这样一个故事,塔拉出生在一座大山脚下的废旧垃圾场里,父亲始终坚持不上学,不就医,且父亲不允许孩子们拥有自己的声音。 但就是在这样一个家庭里,塔拉依然选择了逃离了家庭、逃离大山,坚持学习,坚持自我教育,最终考上了哈佛大学、剑桥大学,实现了人生逆袭。 其实,我们面对的家庭各种各样,我们无法避免,只要我们坚持做自己,努力走好每一步,梦想大门依然会为你敞开。 2、做到独立 父母上岗是没有资格证书的,他们也是第一次为人父母,我们在责怪他们的同时,也要思考自己该如何才能摆脱原生家庭的痛苦。 所以我们不要像莉迪亚那样一味地讨好父母,这样只会让父母觉得自己可以把梦想和期望加诸到你的身上。 在出现问题的时候,我们不妨心平气和地坐下来谈谈,将自己的想法告诉父母,让他们了解你,哪怕沟通不了,也要勇敢地把自己的想法说出来。 所以,要想不再承受原生家庭的伤害,要的不只是经济独立,更要思想独立。 3、勇敢地寻求改变 有时候外界环境的压力迫使我们不得不改变自己为人处世的方式,这时不要退缩,要敢于拥抱变化,在一次次的变化中寻求解决的方法。 其实,和原生家庭和解需要很长一段时间,而和自己和解更是一辈子的话题。我们终其一生都会遇到各种变化和危机,只有把握好每一次的改变,我们才能真正改变自己,强大自身。 人生很长,路费很贵。在我们的人生旅途中,难免会出现各种意外或情况,只有当我们学会承受这些重量,并能及时纾解时,我们才有了前行的勇气和毅力。 希望我们每一个人都能和自己的原生家庭和解,和自己和解,轻松前行。 当看完一本著作后,大家对人生或者事物一定产生了许多感想,此时需要认真思考读后感如何写了哦。可能你现在毫无头绪吧,下面是小编整理的项链英文读后感范文,仅供参考,欢迎大家阅读。 the women is like money and beauty ,because she want other people and friends to admare her,she want to other people think she is a rich women.but her husband isnt rich and just a normel worker in the locel garwenment.there was a dancing party she can take part in,but she didnt has good dress and necklace,so she borrowed a necklace from one of her friends,but she lost it,she and her husband borrowed money and bought another necklace that looks like just the one she borrowed.its very expensive,for repaying the money she and her husband worked very hard for many years.and she looked older than before after these years.but she learned at last that the necklace she borrowed is a fame! The Necklace: Reflections and Confessions of Human's Vanity “What would have happened if she hadn't lost that necklace? Who knows? Who knows? How strange and changeful is life! How small a thing is needed to make or ruin us!” This is what impressed me most in “The Necklace” written by Guy de Maupassant. I love the story not only due to the incredibly wonderful ending, but also because of the exquisite description of the weakness of humanity. In his story, Guy de Maupassant creatively reveals Mathilde Loisels dreams of a wealthy, splendid lifestyle. Mathildes lifetime of misery and despair is solely caused by her own selfish acts. And her vain obsession all ended up ruining her life. Vanity is defined as excessive pride, especially in your appearance. In Mathildes case, the "excessive pride" in her looks and charm caused her to feel as if she deserved a higher ranking social class and the wealth. When she wore the necklace to the party, she wanted to give the illusion that she was something that she was not. Vanity caused Mathilde to fantasize about her life and surroundings-to live in a world of illusion, rather than reality. It seems the world's few women do not love is not love Tiffany necklace, "necklace" reading. But the necklace is a charming feminine woman, a born beauty on the life of their life, she is beautiful, but life is not rich enough to marry a man, if the woman thought if a day will not be reduced to such a sad, but she for the dance to her rich friends borrow a ruby necklace. At the end of the dance, a thunderbolt, borrow Necklace disappeared, since then, the two husband and wife embarked on a lifetime debt repayment. Lamentable! The most terrible is that to the last lost necklace is a fake, it is regrettable! Yes, terrible vanity! But in this society, who did not buy a house with vanity, for example, now the general working families to buy a house for his son, it is going to take a lifetime, but also can not spend money, but also learn to use of simple food, the mother must be very thrifty going on, "the necklace" reading ". For what? In order to bring advantages to his son's marriage, will not let others despise, in order to make his face add light. Vanity is more reflected in modern women, more and more they are required to wear brand-name clothes, wear a few million yuan to watch, what is time accurate, watches the most useful to look at the time, a few million yuan to buy the table has lost its original meaning, but it brings vanity. Real rich people don't spend money in this kind of place. They invest and help others. Gives the person is moved. With the world good vain true good every day, face the reality, to go its own way to let others speak. Sadly, how is the greatest feeling I read necklace! The story is mainly about the beautiful Mathilde, but because he was poor, he could not marry a good family. Finally he married a small clerk in the Ministry of education. Mathilde later borrowed a diamond necklace from a friend in order to show his presence in a department dance. However, after the misunderstanding came back, I found the necklace missing. So, in order to redeem the necklace, Mathilde spent ten years of youth and effort, but finally realized that the necklace was actually a fake. Poor Marty! Just for a diamond necklace, she gave her ten years of youth. Ten years later, she was no longer young and beautiful anymore. In Maupassant's words, she lost the only capital to be a lady. She sacrificed her youth for this diamond necklace. In fact, in other words, she does not have to pity her. Her excessive vanity leads her to taste the bitter fruit of fate. But what is gratifying is that Mathilde came to maturity after all the hardships. After reading the story, everyone might think that all the evil results were caused by the vain love of Rosse Wahl, so she was not worth the pitiful, even a bit of mockery in the laughter. But, the mind slowly fluttered out a question: what was the power of a delicate and delicate woman who would choose to repay the road? They had no hesitation, and they quietly chose a thorny way of life to walk each day with their lips. Hard labor and life drew back her unrealistic fantasies from the clouds to the solid ground. At this point I could not help but applaud Rosa Wahl. At this time, in my mind, when Rosse Wahl told his friend ten years later to confess that the necklace was the other one, she had a smile of pride and innocence. Perhaps this was the most beautiful smile in the world. Although Luo Sewall's appearance had not been bought in the year, she had a self at this time. Respecting the noble spirit. In the balance of beauty and personality, she did not hesitate at all, and said decisively, "return!" After the necklace is lost, the two codes of youthful beauty and dignity are placed on the balance of life, forcing her to make a choice. She decided to give up her youth and choose dignity. The most important moment in life is to learn to give up and give up is also a kind of beauty. So is it very small for her to "destroy" her or to fulfill her? At first, Mathilde was captured by a strong and fearful vanity. Later, she made a surprising decision without hesitation. Finally, when she met her friend who was still young and beautiful, when she learned the truth about the fake necklace, she had a bright and innocent smile on her face. The smile was her confidence and pride. The novel's thought-provoking part is that we have seen a heart of gold in a dirty, false, worship society, a lotus flower that is not dyed with mud. Unfortunately, Mathilde was unfortunate that she was unfortunate to add trouble to what she couldn't get, and she was a lucky man, the cruel reality made her sober, life was not just the illusion of the fog, but more step by step. Guy de Maupassant was the child of an unhappy marriage. His mother has been dessccrriibbeedd as neurotic and his father as a man who sought relief from his wife in the arms of other women. Perhaps the collapse of his parents' marriage engendered de Maupassant's pessimism, reflected particularly in his stories about infidelity and failed relationships. It certainly influenced his own attitude toward women, which, in turn, affected his creation of characters in stories such as "The Necklace." Events in History at the Time of the short story. The purpose of women. De Maupassant's attitude toward women was ambivalent. He was one of few nineteenth-century authors to recognize and celebrate women's sensuality rather than regard it as a sign of corruption. He was also, however, devastatingly cruel to women, whether in his own life or in his fiction. He recommended that the French Academy commission a treatise on how to "break decently, properly, politely, without noise, scene or violence, with a woman who adores you and with whom you are fed up" ,He scoffed at monogamy, insisting that he could not understand how two women could not be better than one, three better than two, and ten better than three. “What would have happened if she hadn't lost that necklace? Who knows? Who knows? How strange and changeful is life! How small a thing is needed to make or ruin us!” This is what impressed me most in “The Necklace” written by Guy de Maupassant. I love the story not only due to the incredibly wonderful ending, but also because of the exquisite description of the weakness of humanity. In his story, Guy de Maupassant creatively reveals Mathilde Loisel's dreams of a wealthy, lendid lifestyle. Mathilde's lifetime of misery and deair is solely caused by her own selfish acts. And her vain obsession all ended up ruining her life. Vanity is defined as excessive pride, eecially in your appearance. In Mathilde's case, the "excessive pride" in her looks and charm caused her to feel as if she deserved a higher ranking social class and the wealth. When she wore the necklace to the party, she wanted to give the illusion that she was something that she was not. Vanity caused Mathilde to fantasize about her life and surroundings-to live in a world of illusion, rather than reality. Her life was affected in a negative way because of her obsession with vanity. It is so sad that she honestly felt successful the night of the dinner, just because of her looks and her surroundings. What a distorted view of true happiness and fulfillment! NEither an elegant dress or a beautiful piece of jewelry can make a person who they are. A caring and loving person has to be unselfish. Mathilde Loisel definitely lacked a caring and loving personality. The only person she proved to love was the person she wanted to be. Had Mathilde not ent so much of her life selfishly, she and Mr. Loisel could have had a lifetime of happiness. The most ironic and interesting piece of the story is the conclusion. Their lives were ruined for no reason. Had she told Mrs. Forrestier the truth about the lost necklace, she would have known that the necklace was just costume jewelry. Actually, it's a tragedy made by herself, for she was conquered by the evil of her heart. In pursuit of vanity may lead to the loss of ourselves. Accept who we are and to be to true to ourselves or else it will contribute to constant unhappiness. Happiness or misfortune, it all depends. “What would have happened if she hadn't lost that necklace? How strange and changeful is life! How small a thing is needed to make or ruin us!” This is what impressed me most in “The Necklace” written by Guy de Maupassant. This story is about a beautiful woman called Mathilde. She borrowed a necklace from her friend to go to a party. At the party,she lose the necklace and buy another one returned her friend. She also worked to buy that necklace for 10 years. 10 years later,her friend tell her the necklace she borrow her is a fake. I think this story tell us do not be trouble of can not have something. 【项链英文读后感】相关文章: 项链英文读后感12-08 项链莫泊桑读后感英文12-09 项链英文续写07-02 《项链》的读后感作文600字07-01 项链的读后感作文800字06-02 项链读后感作文1000字06-07 项链读后感作文500字10-10 项链的读后感作文600字10-11 项链的读后感600字作文10-11 【导语】《项链》这篇文章出于《莫泊桑短篇小说精选》,它是由法国作家莫泊桑撰写的,大家读了会有什么样的感受呢?以下是®无忧考网为大家整理的项链英文读后感【三篇】,欢迎阅读参考。 【篇一】项链英文读后感 It seems the world's few women do not love is not love Tiffany necklace, "necklace" reading. But the necklace is a charming feminine woman, a born beauty on the life of their life, she is beautiful, but life is not rich enough to marry a man, if the woman thought if a day will not be reduced to such a sad, but she for the dance to her rich friends borrow a ruby necklace. At the end of the dance, a thunderbolt, borrow Necklace disappeared, since then, the two husband and wife embarked on a lifetime debt repayment. Lamentable! The most terrible is that to the last lost necklace is a fake, it is regrettable! Yes, terrible vanity! But in this society, who did not buy a house with vanity, for example, now the general working families to buy a house for his son, it is going to take a lifetime, but also can not spend money, but also learn to use of simple food, the mother must be very thrifty going on, "the necklace" reading ". For what? In order to bring advantages to his son's marriage, will not let others despise, in order to make his face add light. Vanity is more reflected in modern women, more and more they are required to wear brand-name clothes, wear a few million yuan to watch, what is time accurate, watches the most useful to look at the time, a few million yuan to buy the table has lost its original meaning, but it brings vanity. Real rich people don't spend money in this kind of place. They invest and help others. Gives the person is moved. With the world good vain true good every day, face the reality, to go its own way to let others speak. Sadly, how is the greatest feeling I read necklace! 【篇二】项链英文读后感 “What would have happened if she hadn’t lost that necklace? How strange and changeful is life! How small a thing is needed to make or ruin us!” This is what impressed me most in “The Necklace” written by Guy de Maupassant. This story is about a beautiful woman called Mathilde. She borrowed a necklace from her friend to go to a party. At the party,she lose the necklace and buy another one returned her friend. She also worked to buy that necklace for 10 years. 10 years later,her friend tell her the necklace she borrow her is a fake. I think this story tell us do not be trouble of can not have something. 【篇三】项链英文读后感 the women is like money and beauty ,because she want other people and friends to admare her,she want to other people think she is a rich women.but her husband isnt rich and just a normel worker in the locel garwenment.there was a dancing party she can take part in,but she didnt has good dress and necklace,so she borrowed a necklace from one of her friends,but she lost it,she and her husband borrowed money and bought another necklace that looks like just the one she borrowed.its very expensive,for repaying the money she and her husband worked very hard for many years.and she looked older than before after these years.but she learned at last that the necklace she borrowed is a fame! 【篇四】项链英文读后感 The Necklace: Reflections and Confessions of Human’s Vanity “What would have happened if she hadn’t lost that necklace? Who knows? Who knows? How strange and changeful is life! How small a thing is needed to make or ruin us!” This is what impressed me most in “The Necklace” written by Guy de Maupassant. I love the story not only due to the incredibly wonderful ending, but also because of the exquisite desc ription of the weakness of humanity. In his story, Guy de Maupassant creatively reveals Mathilde Loisels dreams of a wealthy, splendid lifestyle. Mathildes lifetime of misery and despair is solely caused by her own selfish acts. And her vain obsession all ended up ruining her life. Vanity is defined as excessive pride, especially in your appearance. In Mathildes case, the "excessive pride" in her looks and charm caused her to feel as if she deserved a higher ranking social class and the wealth. When she wore the necklace to the party, she wanted to give the illusion that she was something that she was not. Vanity caused Mathilde to fantasize about her life and surroundings-to live in a world of illusion, rather than reality.项链英文读后感【三篇】的介绍就聊到这里吧,感谢你花时间阅读本站内容,更多关于but it brings vanity.、项链英文读后感【三篇】的信息别忘了在本站进行查找喔。
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